All things being equal, people like to do business with their friends, all things being not so equal, people STILL like to do business with their friends. ~ Jeffrey Gitomer
If you have ever watched a toddler try to “sell” an adult, you’ll notice one of two things – they’ll either turn the charm
right on, or they’ll become incredibly persistent.
My children are reasonably skilled at the sales process; they’ll ask for something in their most cute, polite, appealing manner, and if Mum doesn’t respond immediately with their request, they’ll give me the opportunity to correct my obvious mistake.
They charm me. And they persist.
In order for you to make sales in your business or career, you have to possess these two particular skills. Likeability, and persistence. You see, people buy emotionally first – and this means that before they’ve made a decision to purchase your product, they’ve made a decision to purchase you.
Oftentimes, I’ve shopped around simply because I do not like the sales person, or the company doesn’t sit well with me. Oftentimes I’ve paid a higher price because I have found a salesperson who I like and enjoy doing business with.
Now, if you’ve embarked on a career in sales, It’s reasonably fair to say that you’ve got an extroverted personality, perhaps not loud and raucous, but you enjoy communicating and you enjoy people.
In order to be likeable, there are two things that you must do impeccably:
- Firstly, you must wholeheartedly believe that whatever you are selling will enhance the life and business of your probable purchaser.
- Secondly, you must genuinely like the person you’re selling to.
If you can’t do either, I suggest you find either another career, or another prospect who you can care about.
Sales books and training always chat about being genuine, and the new buzzword “Authenticity” which is all good and well – but it really just boils down to one thing: Being friends and caring.
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